// SECOND LIFE MENTOR REFERENCE

Resident Support Guide

Searchable reference for SL Mentors — covering frequent questions, key in-world locations, and ready-to-use scripts for helping new residents.

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Account & Membership
Premium, basic, tiers
🔞
Adult Content
Age verify first — 18+ only
👤
Avatar Appearance
Shape, skin, attachments
🕊️
CLARA Method
De-escalation framework
💰
Economy & L$
Buying L$, transactions
Free Good Avatar
Legacy body, Milena or Mike head
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Groups & Chat
Join, voice, notifications
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Inventory Issues
Lost, missing, sorting
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Invisible Avatar
Hidden avatars, toggle fix
📍
Key Landmarks
Help areas, hubs, sandboxes
🏡
Land & Parcels
Renting, buying, mainland
📋
Mentor Scripts
Greetings, common responses
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Movement & Teleports
Flying, TP issues, stuck
🛡️
Rules & Reporting
AR, griefers, ToS
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Voice & Audio
Mic, sound, voice chat
FAQs & Answers
12 entries
What are the membership tiers — Basic, Plus, Premium and Premium Plus? Account +
Annual
Monthly
🔓
Basic
50 groups. Full world access, Marketplace, L$ buying. Cannot own land or claim a Linden Home.
Free
Free
Plus
55 groups. L$150/week stipend, up to 512m² mainland, limited Linden Home selection, L$10 uploads.
$5.50/mo
$5.99/mo
🌟
Premium
80 groups. L$300/week stipend, L$1,000 signup bonus, up to 1,024m² mainland, Linden Home, Premium sandboxes, 24/7 live chat.
$8.25/mo
$11.99/mo
💎
Premium Plus
150 groups. Up to 2,048m² mainland, free uploads, concierge phone support, host up to 2 Land Experiences, 240 stored IMs.
$11.99/mo
$15.99/mo
💎
Premium Plus + Stipend & Bonus
Everything above, plus L$650/week stipend and L$3,000 signup bonus. Requires the higher price plan.
$20.75/mo
$29.99/mo
// Mentor Tip

Premium Plus has a checkbox during signup — if ticked, you pay more ($20.75/mo annual or $29.99/mo monthly) but receive the L$650/week stipend and L$3,000 signup bonus. If unticked, you pay less but get no stipend or bonus. Annual billing saves significantly across all paid tiers.

My avatar looks like a cloud / grey blob — how do I fix it? Appearance +

This is a bake fail — your avatar textures haven't loaded properly.

1
Wait 30 seconds — resolves itself on slow connections.
2
Avatar menu → Avatar Health → Refresh Attachments
3
Avatar → Avatar Health → Rebake Textures (shortcut: Ctrl+Alt+R)
4
Still grey? Change to a different region, or relog entirely.
// Mentor Tip

If stuck as "Ruth" (the old default avatar), the quickest fix is the Avatar Welcome Pack — go to Avatar → Avatar Welcome Pack and have them choose a complete modern avatar.

My attachment / HUD won't attach or keeps disappearing. Appearance +

Usually caused by inventory not fully loading or high sim lag.

1
Check Inventory → Recent — wait for the spinning wheel to stop.
2
Right-click the item → Attach To → choose attach point manually.
3
If vanished: Edit → Detach Object — it may have attached off-screen.
4
Relog on a quieter, lower-traffic region.
// Mentor Tip

If a HUD seems lost, try Avatar → Avatar Health → Reset Skeleton & Animations and relog.

How can I have a good avatar for free? Appearance +

You can put together a solid, modern-looking avatar without spending a single L$. Here's how:

1
Your starter body is already a Legacy body — this is a quality mesh body, so you're ahead of the game from day one.
2
Adjust your shape: Right-click your avatar → Edit Shape. Tweak sliders for height, build, face — make it yours.
3
Visit the Firestorm Social Island New Resident Help Area and pick up a free avatar — Milena (female) or Mike (male). Both are free for residents under 90 days old.
4
Find free & cheap clothes — visit Palomma Plaza (in-world, free gifts from top designers) or browse the Marketplace using these filtered links:
5
Check Inventory → Library → Clothing for starter outfits that came with your account.
6
More confident residents can also explore Inventory → Library → Avatar Welcome Pack — right-click the folder, select Copy, and paste it into My Inventory above. They can then open the folder and wear individual clothing items and accessories from there.
// Mentor Tip

The Firestorm Social Island New Resident Help Area has skins, shapes, and outfits all at no cost. Walk newer residents through it in person if you can. Make sure any clothing is compatible with the chosen mesh body. Remember the free avatars are only available to accounts under 90 days old.

How do I get Linden Dollars (L$)? Economy +
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Buy L$: Me → Buy L$ in viewer, or via LindeX on secondlife.com. Rate: approx 250–270 L$ per US$1.
2
Earn in-world: Work as host, DJ, model, scripter, or builder — many roles pay L$/hour.
3
Membership stipends — paid automatically each week based on your tier:
Weekly
Signup Bonus
Plus
L$150
🌟
Premium
L$300
L$1,000
💎
Premium Plus
Without stipend & bonus checkbox
💎
Premium Plus
With stipend & bonus checkbox ($20.75/mo annual · $29.99/mo monthly)
L$650
L$3,000
// Mentor Tip

The Premium Plus stipend and signup bonus are only available at the higher price point ($20.75/mo annual or $29.99/mo monthly) — not all Premium Plus plans qualify. Failed purchase? Direct residents to Help → Support Portal → Billing. Never ask for or accept L$ as a mentor.

How do groups work? I'm getting too many notifications. Groups +

Limits: Free accounts can join up to 42 groups; Premium up to 70.

Joining: Search via People → Groups → Search or click a group sign in-world.

Silencing notices: Right-click the group → Edit → uncheck Receive Notices.

Active tag: Only one group tag shows at a time — click the group → press Activate.

// Mentor Tip

To avoid accidentally leaving groups, tell residents to activate None at the top of their groups list — this means no group is active, so they can't inadvertently trigger a group-related action. It's a simple habit that prevents a lot of confusion.

I can't find items in my inventory — items seem missing. Inventory +

Items are rarely truly lost. Work through these steps:

1
Use the inventory search bar — try partial names or creator names.
2
Check the Recent and Received Items tabs.
3
Check the Trash folder — items can end up there accidentally.
4
Recently purchased? Check Recent Items or the Objects subfolder.
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Firestorm: Avatar → Avatar Health → Clear Inventory Cache, then relog.
// Mentor Tip

Marketplace purchases can be re-delivered at no charge from the resident's order history at marketplace.secondlife.com.

How do I get my own land / place to live? Land +

Land ownership in SL is tied to your membership tier. Here's what each tier includes — or point residents straight to secondlife.com/land for the full overview.

Mainland
Linden Home
🔓
Basic
Plus
512m²
Limited selection
🌟
Premium
1,024m²
Free choice
💎
Premium Plus
2,048m²
Exclusive PP homes + request via support

🏠 Get a Linden Home — the best way to get started. House and land ready to furnish, 30+ styles to choose from, keep it private or open to visitors, enjoy a neighbourhood of other homeowners. Claim via secondlife.com → My Account → Get a Linden Home. Requires paid membership. Premium Plus members get access to exclusive Premium Plus Linden Homes and can request a specific home via a support ticket.

🤝 Rent a parcel — just what you want, when you want it. No commitment, cancel anytime, great for parties and short-term events. Rent from other residents using Linden Dollars. Search Land Rental on Marketplace or in-world classifieds. Premium membership not required.

🏗️ Buy a parcel — build on your own land. A wide range of sizes and geography, more control than renting, resellable when you're ready to upgrade, multiple ways to buy. Uses the L$ land auction system. Premium membership not required.

// Mentor Tip

Newcomers often confuse "renting" (paying L$ to a private landlord) with "owning" (paying tier to Linden Lab). Always clarify the difference. For most newcomers, renting from a private estate is the easiest and most flexible starting point.

Teleport failed / I'm stuck and can't move. Movement +

Teleport failures are common under high server load.

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Wait 60 seconds — ghost avatars need time to catch up.
2
Teleport home: World → Teleport Home.
3
If stuck in place: sit on a nearby object, then stand.
4
Last resort: secondlife.com → My Account → Return Home.
// Mentor Tip

Remind newcomers about flying: Page Up to ascend, Page Down to descend, F to toggle fly mode (viewer-dependent).

Someone is harassing me / griefing. What do I do? Rules +
1
Mute/Block immediately: right-click avatar → Block.
2
Move away — teleport to a different area or home.
3
File an Abuse Report: Help → Report Abuse, choose category, describe what happened, submit.
4
Document — take screenshots with Ctrl+Shift+S.

As a mentor, do not intervene directly with griefers — report only.

// Mentor Tip

Blocking is local to the viewer only — it doesn't globally ban the user. Only Linden Lab can do that via the AR process.

Voice chat isn't working — I can't hear anyone. Audio +
1
Me → Preferences → Sound & Media — confirm Voice enabled and correct devices selected.
2
Confirm the region/parcel allows voice — click the sound icon in the top toolbar to open the sound settings panel. Voice will appear at the bottom of the dropdown with an Enable Voice Chat toggle.
3
Check system audio — ensure SL isn't muted at the OS level.
4
In the sound panel, make sure the Voice slider is turned up and not muted.
5
Relog — voice sometimes fails on the initial login.
// Mentor Tip

The sound icon in the top toolbar (next to the clock) opens a dropdown with sliders for Master, Buttons, Ambient, Sounds, Music, Media, and Voice — this is the same in both the official SL viewer and Firestorm. If voice isn't working, check that the Voice slider is up and Enable Voice Chat is toggled on. Firestorm users: toggling Preferences → Sound & Media → Enable Voice off and on also resolves most intermittent drop-outs.

My avatar is invisible / I can't see other avatars. Appearance +

There are two different situations here — a resident whose avatar is invisible to others, and the shortcut that intentionally hides all avatars.

Avatar invisible to others (unintentional):

1
Try Avatar → Avatar Health → Rebake Textures (Ctrl+Alt+R on PC, Ctrl+Option+R on Mac).
2
Use Avatar → Avatar Welcome Pack and wear a fresh complete avatar.
3
Change regions or relog entirely.

All avatars hidden (intentional toggle):

There is a shortcut that hides all avatars in the scene — including your own. This is useful at crowded events to let vendors and objects rez more quickly, but it can confuse residents who trigger it accidentally.

💡
Mac: Shift + Option + Command + 4
PC: Ctrl + Alt + Shift + 4
Press the same combination again to bring all avatars back.
// Mentor Tip

If a resident says everyone has disappeared including themselves, this shortcut is almost certainly the cause. It's a toggle — one press hides everyone, the same shortcut brings them all back. Remind them it hides all avatars, not just theirs, and is commonly used at busy events to improve performance.

A resident is asking about sex / adult content in SL. Adult +

This is one of the most commonly asked questions from new residents. Handle it professionally and without judgement — adult content is a legal and fully supported part of Second Life.

// Important — Do This First

Before pointing or taking a resident to the Adult Hub, you must ask them directly if they are 18 or over and wait for an explicit confirmation. Do not proceed until they have confirmed this in chat.

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Ask the resident: "Before I help with this, I need to confirm — are you 18 or over?"
2
Wait for a clear yes in chat. If they say no, or do not reply, do not proceed.
3
Once confirmed, you can point them to or take them to the Adult Hub where they can explore adult content areas safely.
4
Remind them that adult regions require their account to have Adult content enabled — this is set via secondlife.com → My Account → Account Settings.
// Mentor Tip

Never assume age. The confirmation must come from the resident in chat — this protects both them and you. If they decline to answer or seem evasive, politely end the conversation on this topic.

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Landmark Directory
10 locations
Welcome Hub
📌 secondlife://WelcomeHub/166/105/25
Still a useful and relevant destination, but no longer the primary entry point for new residents. Worth knowing and visiting — many residents still pass through here.
Desktop Learning Centre
📌 secondlife://LearningCenterDT/162/102/153
The primary entry point for new residents joining Second Life on desktop. This is where most new residents will arrive — a key location for mentors to be aware of.
Campwich Forest Lodge
📌 secondlife://Campwich Forest 1/140/120/28
The primary entry point for new residents joining Second Life on mobile. Mentors supporting mobile users should be familiar with this location and its layout.
Sandbox Welcome Area
📌 secondlife://WelcomeHubSandbox/74/79/25
Official Linden Lab public sandbox. Residents can rez and build freely. Objects auto-return after a few hours — great for teaching building basics and experimenting with objects.
Palomma Plaza
📌 secondlife://Gallii/178/35/33
In memory of Free Dove and its founder Palomma Casanova — continuing the dream with free gifts from top SL designers. Fashion, clothes, skins, shapes, shoes, hair, jewellery, makeup, and more for both men and women.
Mesh Body Stores
📌 Search "Maitreya", "Legacy", or "Signature"
Main stores for the most popular mesh bodies. Free demos available. Essential for avatar customisation — always try before buying. Demos are free!
Destination Guide / Events
📌 In-viewer: World → Destination Guide
Linden Lab's curated guide listing featured locations, live events, music venues, and art spaces — updated regularly. Great for activity suggestions.
SL Mentors Group HQ
📌 Search "SL Mentors" in Groups search
The official Second Life Mentors group. Join to coordinate with other mentors, access shared resources, and attend training events and briefings.
Firestorm Social Island
📌 Search "Firestorm Social Island" in World Search
New Resident Help Area offering free quality items including the Milena (female) and Mike (male) mesh heads. Free to residents under 90 days old. A great first stop for newcomers.
Adult Hub
📌 Search "Adult Hub" in World Search
The central hub for adult content in Second Life. Direct residents here only after confirming they are 18 or over. Residents must also have Adult content enabled on their account.
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Mentor Tips & Scripts
7 scripts
Greeting a New Resident Opening +

Keep your opener friendly, brief, and non-intrusive. Many newcomers feel overwhelmed — don't flood them with information right away. Give them space to respond.

// Say in local or IM
Hi there! Welcome to Second Life! 😊 I'm a Mentor volunteer — feel free to ask me anything, no question is too basic. Happy to help you get started!

If they don't respond, give it 2–3 minutes before a gentle follow-up. Some residents are still figuring out how to type in chat.

Resident Seems Confused or Overwhelmed Support +

Slow down. Ask one question at a time. Mirror their pace — if they're typing slowly, don't flood them with walls of text. Identify one goal and focus on it entirely.

// Say in local or IM
No worries at all — SL can feel overwhelming at first! Let's take it step by step. What's the one thing you'd most like to do right now?

If they can't articulate a goal, offer concrete options: explore somewhere new, customise their avatar, find people to meet.

When You Don't Know the Answer Best Practice +

It's always better to say you don't know than to give incorrect information. Misinformation causes real frustration — residents trust mentors.

// Say in local or IM
That's a great question — I want to give you the right answer rather than guess. Let me find out / you can also check the SL Knowledge Base at community.secondlife.com.
community.secondlife.com — official knowledge base and Q&A
Second Life Answers — community forum for resident questions
Firestorm Support Group (in-world) — viewer-specific issues
Handling Rude or Difficult Residents Boundaries +

Mentors are volunteers. You are never obligated to tolerate abuse. Stay calm, remain professional, and disengage if needed — your wellbeing comes first.

// Say in local or IM
I'm happy to help, but I do need us to keep the conversation respectful. If you'd like assistance, I'm here — otherwise I'll let you explore on your own.

If they continue, simply stop responding. Mute them and report to a senior mentor or via AR if they are harassing others. Do not engage in arguments.

Wrapping Up a Conversation Closing +

End every interaction positively — even brief ones. Leave the door open for follow-up questions. A summary of what you covered helps them remember the steps.

// Say in local or IM
Great talking with you! If you have any more questions later, just shout — mentors are usually around. Enjoy Second Life! 🌟

Log any recurring confusion patterns you notice — valuable feedback for the wider mentor team.

Explaining Mesh Bodies to Newcomers Appearance +

Mesh bodies are one of the most confusing topics for newcomers. Use a simple analogy before going into technical detail.

// Analogy to use
Think of the default avatar as a basic mannequin. A mesh body is like a custom suit you wear over it — much better detail and fits modern clothing. Most popular are Maitreya (female) and Legacy or Signature (male). They cost L$ but free demos let you try before you buy!
Mesh bodies need BOM (Bakes on Mesh) enabled for skin to display correctly.
Clothing must be fitted/rigged for that specific body — not all clothes fit all bodies.
Always demo first — demos are free and show exactly how it looks on your shape.
Free alternative: search Ruth 2.0 on the Marketplace.
Age Verification Before Adult Content Adult +

This is one of the most common requests. You must get explicit age confirmation before directing or taking a resident to any adult area. Do not skip this step.

// Step 1 — Ask first
Before I can help with that, I need to ask — are you 18 or over?
// Step 2 — Once confirmed
Great, thanks for confirming! I can point you to the Adult Hub where you'll find what you're looking for. You may also need to enable Adult content on your account at secondlife.com → My Account → Account Settings.
// If they say no or don't reply
I'm not able to help with that — adult areas are for residents who are 18 or over. Is there anything else I can help you with?

Never assume age based on how someone presents their avatar or how they write. The confirmation must be explicit and in chat.

🕊️
The CLARA Method
De-escalation framework

CLARA is a five-step framework for nonviolent communication and de-escalation. It shifts a conversation from a win-lose argument to a collaborative dialogue — ideal for mentors handling frustrated or confrontational residents.

C
Centre Yourself
Before engaging with someone angry or confrontational, manage your own internal state first.
// Action
Take a breath, ground yourself, and remind yourself that the other person's anger is likely about their own needs or fears — not a personal attack. If you aren't calm, you cannot calm someone else.
L
Listen
Give the person your full, undivided attention without interrupting.
// Action
Look for the feeling or need behind their words. Even if they are being rude or irrational — what are they trying to protect? What do they feel they have lost?
A
Affirm (or Acknowledge)
Find a point of connection or a feeling you can validate — to lower their defensive wall.
// Action
This doesn't mean you agree with their logic. You are simply affirming their experience.
"I can hear how frustrated you are that the rules seem to have changed without warning."
"It makes sense that you feel ignored right now."
R
Respond
Only after affirming their feelings do you address the actual issue or provide information.
// Action
Use "I" statements and keep your tone neutral. Avoid blame. Address the specific points they raised during the Listen phase.
A
Add (or Ask / Adjust)
Wrap up by providing additional resources, asking a clarifying question, or adjusting the situation.
// Action
Offer a next step that moves toward resolution or a graceful exit.
"Would it help if we looked at the guidelines together?"
"How can we make this right for both of us?"
✔ Pros
Defuses Hostility
By affirming the other person, you stop the back-and-forth of an argument before it escalates.
Preserves Relationships
Builds a reputation for fairness and level-headedness — especially valuable in mentoring or leadership roles.
Clarity
Helps you get to the actual problem rather than just fighting about the surface anger.
✘ Cons
Time-Consuming
Requires patience and can take longer than simply giving an order or walking away.
Emotional Tax
Requires you to absorb some of the other person's heat while staying cool yourself.
⚠ Not for Physical Danger
If a situation turns violent or physically unsafe, CLARA is not a substitute for removing yourself or seeking safety.